I have a lot of notes on my iPad for future stories; things that happened or topics I want to document, basically everything I can remember and anything I think my kids might like to enjoy reading after I’m gone. This story is being started the night before a Wailin’ Jennys concert in Grass Valley, California. California has a lot of small towns whose residents support the local arts and artists. Grass Valley does a decent job of attracting a few major names, (oh, and it’s home to Kenny Bania of Seinfeld – we saw him open for Paul Reiser there). We also saw the Jennys two years ago at The Crest in Sacramento and fell in love with their voices.
Music means a lot to me. I’m sure it doesn’t mean as much as it does to people who make their living in the business, but according to Marilu Henner one of our senses are dominant in that it the dominant sense aids our memories. When I read her book, (Total Memory Makeover), there was a test that helped me determine which of my senses was the guiding sense. My son Tim’s was smell and my wife’s was touch. Mine was sound. My taste for music is wide, but not necessarily what you might call eclectic. I like most from Bluegrass, like Alison Krause, to Eminem. I confess that I don’t like most rap, but I do like Eminem.
Ok, at least they understood that. Hopefully I didn’t just ask them where the aviary was. They looked at me and just sort of shrugged their shoulders in a ‘who knows’ sort of fashion. There was no way to reach her. I just had to sit and fret. Finally, around six, the sun looked like it would soon be setting. This really worried me because there are no lights at the St Bart’s airport – it shuts down when the sun goes down.
We have an upcoming wedding anniversary, our 38th! Wow, add to that the years we dated before marriage and that makes more than 41 years together. Why is she not tired of me yet? You readers who have checked in with me before know that I’m a big fan of finding coincidences in life – they make life more interesting. For this anniversary we are going to take a weekend trip with another couple who celebrate their wedding only 5 days away from ours. Having close wedding dates is not the only coincidence though.
And now….the exciting conclusion to last week’s story, Two More Laps
I remember that each time a new face would come out to greet me, I would shout out an important declaration – “TWO MORE LAPS!” Apparently the accountant in me felt the need to express the solution in terms of a precise numerical declaration. I’m not sure how long I had been walking when 5 or 6 wet bodies came out to get me with the purpose of tossing me into the pool. Likely they felt a drenching was what was needed for sobering me up.
I was so drunk that I was scared. I tried to look as sober and straight faced as I could to the wet one of the group who had a reputation for being level-headed. That was a guy named Ricky. The guys had all had me lifted and were making our way to the pool. “Ricky – I don’t know if I can get out.” I’m certain Ricky had a few to drink, just as everyone else in the group, but my statement had the desired sobering effect because Ricky immediately got in front of the group and said, “hey guys, this might not be such a good idea. Let’s leave Rob alone out here, let him keep walking.” There were some moans and groans but they trusted Ricky’s judgment and set me down. Continue reading →
This would be the second time, (or third if I count a party at the Menzer house in high school), that I drank uncontrollably, but FINALLY learned a lesson. It goes down in my personal journals as my most stupid drinking night (as an adult). My ‘first’ bad night occurred many years earlier and I have to claim teenager-ignorance otherwise it would be my most stupid. I offer it here if you’d enjoy reading(link). I didn’t know my limit and it resulted in a rough night. I remembered my lesson learned from this experience until I forgot about it 16-17 years later. This is that story, offered in two parts. Look for the conclusion next week. Continue reading →